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Did someone lie to you and hurt you?
November 28th, 2013 (December 17th, 2013)

illustration (attribution, if any possible, is at the end of the article)

Did someone lie to you and hurt you?

Until Enlightenment, the person you see is not  the person in front of you. Your mind has filters… which biases your perceptions hence your response. This is specially true when you don't see just the other person but both yourself and the other. Once the 'I' is in the picture, you can ring the alarm bells: try and pay attention to the situation without believing your thoughts.

19'13'' video Byron Katie: "He lied to me" Is It True?—The Work of Byron Katie

Contrarily to the naïve belief, you want  to be vulnerable to pain: that's when you're open, generous, at peace, responsive… alive. That's when you can experience empathy, when moral causality is as crystal-clear as causality in general… That's when you can  act wholesomely, because you accept the risks inherent to engaging.

Thanksgiving anyone?

Who did you thank today? Not out of habit (karma) and tradition [not that there's anything wrong with a habit of gratitude, but if you're not present to it, it's about as grateful as a computer/robot can be], but out of conscious choice and reflecting on your life? Given your circumstances change year on year, do you really think you'd come up every year with the same people to thank?

PS: in the video, the worksheet he's using is